Wake Up and Stop Feeling Sorry for Yourself!
WAKE THE F UP!!! And stop feeling sorry for yourself!
I was on a call this morning where the host asked us if we could have a conversation with our old selves how would it go.
Here is how mine would go:
Jaime...you have got to wake the F up and stop feeling sorry for yourself! I get that you are hurting...I get that you feel lost like there is no way out, that this is how it will be forever, BUT if you could just see beyond that hurt at this very moment you would realize that you aren't stuck here. YOU are in control of your life. YOU have the power to make changes, to grow, to better yourself and better your situation.
I get it, It's not your fault...society taught you to just accept things, to just shut your mouth and accept what you have. Your dreams were crushed at a young age by people who had THEIR dreams crushed. Don't blame them...it's not their fault either. Although it wasn't your fault or theirs, it IS now YOUR responsibility to get out of it. You have a choice here...you can choose to remain the same and accept your situation which is the easy and comfortable thing to do although it keeps you feeling the same forever...broken and lost...OR you can wake up, grow up, and take your life into your own hands.
How? make the uncomfortable changes necessary to ROCK this life! Change your habits both physically and mentally. Start treating your body and mind with the RESPECT they deserve, start speaking to yourself the way you want others to speak to you, and start BELIEVING that you are capable of amazing things.
Once you do those things, the universe will take care of the rest. You will connect with the right people, make the right friends, and stumble upon the right opportunities.
So here's the deal Jaime...take 3 seconds to feel sorry for yourself for the last freaking time and then WAKE THE F UP and make the decision to change your life...and I will be here by your side the entire way. YOU got this!!